Feeling generally unwell?

If you feel generally unwell, it’s important to get yourself checked out by your midwife or GP, as these symptoms can be signs of infection:

  • Lower abdominal pain
  • Pain, redness or heat in the breast and other signs of mastitis
  • Redness, discharge or swelling around incisions or stitches
  • Offensive, foul smelling vaginal discharge/blood loss
  • Difficulty urinating or pain when urinating
  • A high or low temperature
  • Headache
  • Feeling generally unwell

Your body after birth

Labour and birth are very demanding and your body can look and feel very different straight after birth. This can be quite shocking and upsetting for some women, but it’s worth remembering that many of these changes are temporary and will get better in time.

To reduce the risk of infection, it is vital that you wash your hand before and after passing urine, opening your bowels or changing your sanitary towel.

Learn more about your body straight after the birth.

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If you’ve had stitches after tearing or an episiotomy (cut), bathe them every day to help prevent infection. Have a bath or shower with plain warm water then carefully pat yourself dry.

If your stitches are sore or uncomfortable, tell your midwife.

Painkillers can help. If you’re breastfeeding, check with your pharmacist, midwife or GP before you buy over-the-counter painkillers.

Stitches usually dissolve by the time the cut or tear has healed, but sometimes they have to be taken out.

Read about stitches after birth on NHS UK

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Recovery after caesarean

A caesarean is major surgery and recovery can take several weeks, although you will usually start to feel more comfortable after a few days. You should try to stay mobile, but don’t overdo it – your stomach muscles and your wound need time to heal. You should avoid strenuous activity, heavy lifting, driving and sex for around six weeks, but your midwife can give you personalised advice.


You should keep your surgical stockings on for a week to reduce the risk of deep vein thrombosis (DVT). If you have been given a course of injections to take home, it’s important that you complete the course. These are to reduce your risk of developing a DVT also.


Stitches usually dissolve by the time the cut or tear has healed, but non-dissolvable stiches and staples will need to be removed. If you have dissolvable stitches that are not dissolving, tell your midwife. You should wash and carefully dry your wound every day to prevent infection, and seek advice if your wound is red, swollen, painful, oozing or smelly.

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Legs and feet

Some women experience swelling in their feet and legs after birth, especially if they’ve had a caesarean. This can be uncomfortable, but it’s usually not a problem. Ice packs, foot baths and elevating your feet for a little while can be helpful, and swelling should improve after 1-2 weeks.


However, women are at increased risk of deep vein thrombosis (DVT) for around six weeks after birth. If you experience any of these symptoms you should seek immediate medical advice:

  • Swelling in one leg / foot
  • Redness / heat in your calf
  • Pain or tenderness in your calf or behind your knee
  • Shortness of breath or chest pain

If you have been given compression stockings, you should wear them for as long as you have been advised (usually around a week). Some women will be sent home with a course of injections to prevent blood clots if they are at increased risk – if so, make sure you finish the course. To prevent DVT you should keep mobile, drink lots of water and do ankle exercises (e.g. rotating your feet).

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Going to the toilet

At first, the thought of peeing can be a bit frightening – because of the soreness. Drinking lots of water dilutes your urine, which may make it sting less.

Tell your midwife if:

  • you’re finding it really difficult to pee
  • you feel very sore
  • you notice an unpleasant smell

You probably won’t have a poo for a few days after the birth, but it’s important not to let yourself get constipated.

Eat plenty of fresh fruit, vegetables, salad, wholegrain cereals and wholemeal bread, and drink plenty of water.

If you’ve had stitches, it’s very unlikely you’ll break them, or open up the cut or tear again.

It might feel better if you hold a pad of clean tissue over the stitches when pooing. Try not to strain.

Talk to your midwife or GP if you have constipation that won’t go away. A gentle laxative may help.

Also tell your midwife or GP if poo is leaking or you’re pooing when you don’t mean to.

Read about going to the toilet following labour and birth on the NHS website.

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Bladder control and pelvic floor

Lots of women find that they leak a bit of pee when coughing, sneezing or laughing after they’ve had a baby.

This sort of problem is usually caused by a weakness in your pelvic floor muscles, which is common after pregnancy and birth. Pelvic floor exercises can help to strengthen your pelvic floor muscles and prevent accidents.

Watch this video on how to strengthen your pelvic floor:

Tell your general practitioner (GP) at your postnatal check if things aren’t getting better. They may refer you to a physiotherapist.


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Piles are very common after birth but usually disappear within a few days.

Eat plenty of fresh fruit, vegetables, salad, wholegrain cereals and wholemeal bread, and drink plenty of water. This should make pooing easier and less painful.

Try not to push or strain – this will make the piles worse.

Let your midwife know if you feel very uncomfortable. They can give you a cream to soothe the piles.

Read about the affects of piles after labour and birth on NHS website.

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Bleeding after birth (lochia)

You’ll bleed from your vagina after the birth. It will be quite heavy at first, and you’ll need super-absorbent sanitary towels. Change them regularly, washing your hands before and afterwards.

It isn’t a good idea to use tampons until after your 6-week postnatal check because they could increase your chance of getting an infection.

You may notice the bleeding is redder and heavier when you breastfeed. This happens because breastfeeding makes your womb contract. You may also feel cramps similar to period pains.


The bleeding will carry on for a few weeks. It will gradually turn a brownish colour and decrease until it finally stops.

If you’re losing blood in large clots, tell your midwife. You may need some treatment.

Read information about bleeding after labour and birth on NHS UK

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To begin with, your breasts will produce a yellowish liquid called colostrum for your baby.

On the third or fourth day, they may feel tight and tender as they start to produce milk.

Wearing a supportive nursing bra may help. Speak to your midwife if you’re very uncomfortable, experiencing an area of redness and/or heat in one breast or if feeding is painful.

Read information about your breasts and the affects of labour and birth on NHS website. You can also contact your local infant feeding team for support. 


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Sex and Contraception

You shouldn’t start having sex again until you both feel ready, physically and mentally. For some couples this can take some time, as your birth experience, any injuries or trauma, your hormone levels, emotional wellbeing and sleep-deprivation all impact on your ability or desire to have sex. There is no “normal” timeframe to resume a sexual relationship after birth, it depends on the couple and what you’ve experienced.


If you do want to have sex, it’s best to wait at least a few weeks to allow yourself to heal, whether you’ve had a vaginal birth or a caesarean. The risk of infection is higher in the weeks following the birth, as your cervix may not be fully closed, and your uterus will still be healing where the placenta has detached. Ask your midwife for advice on this based on your own circumstances. You may need to use extra lubrication to make things more comfortable, especially if you are breastfeeding or pumping as this affects your hormone levels.


If you do have sex, it’s extremely important to use contraception – you can become pregnant again within a few weeks of giving birth, you will be fertile before your first period arrives. Some people think that breastfeeding prevents ovulation but this is not always the case.


It’s a good idea to think about what sort of contraception you’d like to use – talk to your GP about your options, as not all contraceptives can be used while breastfeeding. Until you’ve arranged contraception, make sure you use condoms to prevent an unplanned pregnancy.

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Getting regular exercise is an important part of physical and emotional wellbeing.

Some of the benefits include:

  • Helps to control weight and return to pre-pregnancy weight
  • Improves tummy muscle tone and strength
  • Improves sleep
  • Improves mood
  • Time for yourself – reduces worries and depression
  • Improves fitness

It is safe for post-partum women to be active, but it’s important not to do too much too soon.

If you’ve had a straightforward birth, you may start gentle activity as soon as you feel up to it, e.g. walking, gentle stretches, pelvic ?oor and deep stomach exercise, taking the stairs, and being active with your baby.

After the 6-8 week postnatal check and depending on how you feel, moderate intensity activities can gradually resume. After 3 months, in the absence of any issues, you can resume high-impact activities like running and jumping.

If you weren’t active before your pregnancy, start gradually.

If you were active before your pregnancy, it is also important that you build back up gradually.

If you have had a caesarean, as soon as you’re able to get out of bed gentle walking will help you recover from your surgery. It is still safe to undertake daily pelvic floor and gentle core exercises soon after birth as long as you haven’t suffered any complications. Once you no longer have any pain, it is usually safe to start low-impact exercises, such as swimming, pilates, yoga, gentle jogging and low resistance gym work. Wait until you’ve had your 6-8 week postnatal check with your GP before returning to your pre-pregnancy levels of exercise.

Eventually aim for 150 minutes of moderate intensity physical activity spread throughout the week. You need not do it all at once – every active minute counts!

Activities can include walking, exercise classes, taking the stairs, swimming, gardening, housework or any activity that makes you breathe faster whilst still being able to hold a conversation.

Start pelvic floor exercises as soon as you can and continue daily.

Build back up to muscle strengthening activities twice a week e.g. walking uphill, taking the stairs, carrying shopping bags, and pregnancy yoga.

You can be active while breastfeeding.

When you do start to exercise, it’s important to pay attention to your body – you should stop if it’s painful, when you are tired or if you feel unwell.

You should see your Obstetrician, Midwife or GP before starting to increase their physical activity if you have any symptoms of new excessive shortness of breath, chest pain, palpitations, dizziness or fainting/near fainting, both during exertion or at rest.

For guided activity videos that you can follow at home visit the This Mum Moves website.

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Infections can lead to sepsis, which is a life-threatening condition. You should call 999 if you feel unwell and have any of the following symptoms:


• Mottled or discoloured skin

• Extreme shivering

• Rapid heartbeat and / or breathing

• Slurred speech and / or confusion

• Severe muscle pain

• Not passing any urine

• Breathlessness


Find out more from Sepsis Trust

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